Category: Relationships


Money: Power & Control

I don’t think it’s realistic to talk about money without addressing the power it holds. There is a reason why poverty begets violence. Money is about resources, survival and livelihood. Our most primal instincts are awakened when money is at play. Access to money and other resources that only money can provide can determine access ...


Why I Wanted A Sweetheart Table

I work full-time and so does my husband. We both travel for work regulary, me throughout the state and him all over the country. While we both are dealing with our professional lives, we had to juggle family and wedding planning. To add fuel to the “busy fire” I was in the last semester of an MBA ...


Marriage is a Business

“When a man loves a woman…” Did I get your attention? Good. That’s kind of what I was going for. Now that you’re here, I can get something off my chest that I’ve been carrying around for a few weeks, maybe months. Nothing makes my ass itch like when I see someone, usually on social ...


Are You an Enabler?

The older I get, the more I wonder if we really know what love is. Philosophical questions such as “what is love” are entirely too complex for us to tackle in a single blog post, or even in one lifetime. But I think there are some characteristics of love that most, if not all people, ...


Go Dutch

Smart women marry well or don't marry at all.


Personal Growth and Relationships

t seemed that as I got older I became less patient with people who proved over and over again that they did not respect my time or my friendship. I became much less forgiving of those whose friendships were conditional based on arbitrary standards that were subject to change at their convenience.